This is a pair of parents to marry the daughter of the speech
Parents hear you will marry good news, I'm happy for you, over the longest distance, we couldn't attend your wedding, not in a wedding present our parents speeches, this is our inner little regret.
But you are our daughter, believe that you can understand the parents of a feeling.
That day phone down, your mother and I was silent long - our children how soon grew up?
Later, your mama to the mirror nonchalantly said: you see, my hair again many a, ping son also should get married.
I counted your mama of white hair, a white-haired unexpectedly like many who of the past, one thing at a floating on the heart. Your mom reminded me: or write a letter to her daughter! Even if we send you a wedding gift.
Ping son, we just bereaved parents, the most ordinary our kids are just gossip the most ordinary daughter, we do not expect too much, just want my children to set foot on marriage road, toward the life journey, can grateful, bon voyage. Here, give you a our life experience.
First to tell you: the house is not a reasonable place. This sentence sounds, it is not reasonable, but true, this sentence is truth, is the arts and the sciences, how much is the couple, how many family (including our house) with how many years, how many poignant, how much love and hatred, how much is, how many rightly or wrongly, tangled up tiebreaking 3-pointer in the chaos and sort it out of a final conclusion.
When the couple started between argued that at home when started cloth shadows. They will not consciously hold a heap of recognition of each other, helps, hostility to hurt each other, and finally only, difficult to tidy up internecine. How many couples for surface of a (cut), falls scorned heartless. They didn't know, house isn't the place of reasonable, do not place. So, what is (home), home is where? Ping son, when we are young, also can't answer this question, also like many couples that, for some trifle chode endlessly. That year for your brother-in-law who transfer problem, I and NiMaDa quarrel, even to welcome to divorce point. Just at that time we still lack courage.
Until one day, an old comrades-in-arms in his child's wedding said: [I hope you wanted.now, love is eternal, love this brief words, like ChunLei ringing in my heart. Yes, house isn't the place of reasonable, home this is about to be loved. Love moment is very easy, love life is not easy, there are many beauty need us to summarize and experience.
Second, we will tell you: marriage is an empty box, you must go toward inside put things, can retrieve the thing you want; You put too much, get more also.
Many people get married, marriage in a many expect, hoping we can get wealth, through wei, love, peace, happiness, health, actually marriage when beginning, just an empty box. Walk to arrive together of two people, must be a habit, to give, to love each other, serve, each other admiration, in the future, the empty box will increasingly rich rise. Empty box first the place should be (miss), missing is a make us unforgettable things. It is two people have the affirmation, emotional and then care, and then love a mood.
(miss) is tired to home a path is cold winter night, a strands of warmth, is hastily open the door after meal assailed home sweet... Empty box (art), even into married life of the arts. In a marriage, we need to talk about art place everywhere, angry quarrels have art, art. Have a couple eked has brought up five children, including hard, only they can understand. One day, the husband and wife for the children of a small matter of noisy, the more noise more formidable, see irremediable, my wife suddenly say: wait a minute, I'm going to have a baby. This sentence is the art of quarrel. Marriage box, besides put (miss) and (art) outside, still have a lot of things, can put inside, it needs to be your own to fill.
Write here think of a writer said a word [you choice, education him, your responsibility exhausted, and you give him the best gift, is a pair of wings). Ping son, this letter is parents give you wedding gift, they hope you with our best wishes, happy flying!
- papa, mama
The couple have marriage, one more often in places, this place called thy house. Here you overworked one day become a place of rest, here be your lover and jointly create a world. But here is a conventional couldn't walk here. That is the reason. People are unreasonable, is a weakness, people know only reasonable, is a blind spot. Usually, the more knowledgeable people more believe rational everywhere. Rational may everywhere, but walked to the family would get one.
Constant somebody said: "the house does not the place of reasonable, a couple is not reasonable relationship." This sentence first sounds very makes no sense, but is true, this sentence is truth, is to manage. For women, at the beginning marry to the husband, not because he is good at reasonable. But expect he'll hurts himself, love yourself for a lifetime. Now he forget pain love yourselves, frequently and reasonable. Well, husband very reasonable, will be reasonable, can put white horse say into dark horse, can turn the water said oil, these himself knew, the in the mind also understand, but listen to be so weird, husband you even if there is showing a reason and how it could?
For men, the original marry a wife, not because she is good at reasonable, but because she lovely, she everywhere take care of yourself, and rain reminding yourself of umbrella or send an umbrella, Oneself or funeral is unpleasant, return can with talk to her instead of pressure in your hearts, She can take care of herself, hurts himself for a lifetime person. Now she forgot to take care of themselves, or aching themselves, but everything with their reason. This heart can better?
In fact when couples began between argued that at home when I'm afraid began overshadowed. They will not self-consciously each holding a heap of recognition, refutes the helps each other, hurt each other, and finally only, difficult to tidy up internecine. Remember, house isn't the place of reasonable, home is speak place of love.